How to Find the Perfect Home Care Solution for Your Elderly Loved One
Discovering that an elderly family member needs additional support can feel overwhelming. Whether you’re looking for a few hours of weekly help or round-the-clock care, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know about finding the right home care solution.
Understanding When It’s Time for Home Care
Recognising when your loved one needs support isn’t always straightforward. Often, small changes in their daily routine or behaviour can signal that some extra help might benefit them.
- Struggling with personal care tasks like washing or dressing
- Finding it difficult to prepare meals or maintain a balanced diet
- Forgetting to take medications or attend appointments
- Having difficulty keeping their home clean and tidy
- Showing signs of loneliness or isolation
- Experiencing more frequent falls or accidents
Remember, needing support doesn’t mean giving up independence. In fact, the right home care can help your loved one maintain their independence for longer by providing just the right amount of assistance when it’s needed.
Types of Home Care Available
Home care isn’t one-size-fits-all. Understanding the different types available helps you make an informed decision about what’s best for your situation.
- Companionship Care – Regular visits for social interaction, light housework, and activities
- Personal Care – Help with washing, dressing, and other personal hygiene needs
- Medication Support – Assistance with managing prescriptions and taking medicines correctly
- Specialist Care – Dedicated support for conditions like dementia or Parkinson’s
- Live-in Care – Round-the-clock support from a carer who lives in the home
- Respite Care – Temporary care to give family carers a break
Each type of care can be tailored to meet specific needs, and many families find they need a combination of services as circumstances change.
Assessing Your Loved One’s Needs
Before you start looking for care providers, it’s important to have a clear picture of exactly what support is needed. This helps ensure you find the right type of care and avoid paying for services that aren’t necessary.
- Make a list of daily activities where help is needed
- Note any specific health conditions that require specialist knowledge
- Consider what times of day support is most needed
- Think about whether needs might change in the near future
- Take into account any cultural or language preferences
- Factor in your loved one’s hobbies and interests
Taking time to thoroughly assess needs now can save a lot of difficulty later. It’s often helpful to keep a diary for a week or two, noting down all the times help would have been useful.
Starting Your Search
With a clear understanding of your needs, you can begin looking for suitable care providers. There are several ways to find quality home care services.
- Ask your GP or local health professionals for recommendations
- Contact your local council’s adult social services department
- Use the Care Quality Commission website to find registered providers
- Ask friends and family about their experiences
- Research care providers’ websites and reviews
- Contact local care agencies directly
Don’t rush this process – it’s worth taking time to create a shortlist of providers who seem to match your requirements. Remember to check each provider’s registration status and latest inspection reports through the Care Quality Commission website.
Essential Questions to Ask Care Providers
When you’re speaking with potential care providers, asking the right questions helps you make an informed decision. Don’t be afraid to ask detailed questions – good care providers will welcome them.
- What training do your carers receive, and how often is it updated?
- How do you match carers with clients?
- What happens if our regular carer is sick or on holiday?
- How do you monitor the quality of care being delivered?
- What’s your complaints procedure?
- How do you communicate with families about care updates?
- Can we adjust care hours or services if needs change?
Take notes during these conversations and trust your instincts – the way providers respond to your questions can tell you a lot about their approach to care.
Understanding Care Quality
Quality in home care isn’t just about completing tasks – it’s about how those tasks are carried out and the overall experience for your loved one.
- Check the provider’s Care Quality Commission (CQC) rating
- Look for testimonials and reviews from current clients
- Ask about staff turnover rates – lower turnover often means happier carers
- Enquire about supervision and quality monitoring
- Find out how the provider handles feedback and suggestions
- Ask about their approach to person-centred care
Remember that the best care providers focus on building relationships, not just delivering services. They should show genuine interest in getting to know your loved one as a person.
Setting Up and Managing Care
Once you’ve chosen a provider, there are several steps to ensuring care runs smoothly from the start.
- Request a detailed care plan in writing
- Establish clear communication channels with the care team
- Set up an emergency contact protocol
- Arrange a proper introduction with the assigned carer(s)
- Schedule regular reviews of care needs
- Keep a log of any concerns or suggestions
Good preparation helps avoid misunderstandings and ensures everyone knows what to expect.
Making Care Work for Your Family
Successful home care is a partnership between the care provider, your loved one, and your family.
- Keep open communication with both the carer and provider
- Be clear about your expectations
- Stay involved in care planning and reviews
- Provide feedback – both positive and constructive
- Keep emergency contact information up to date
- Plan ahead for holidays and special occasions
Why Choose Lidder Care?
At Lidder Care, we understand that choosing home care is a significant decision. Our approach combines professional expertise with genuine compassion to deliver exceptional care that makes a real difference.
- Highly trained, DBS-checked care professionals
- Personalised care plans that evolve with changing needs
- Consistent carers who build genuine relationships
- Regular quality monitoring and supervision
- Clear communication with families
- Emergency support available 24/7
- Competitive rates and transparent pricing
Ready to Discuss Your Care Needs?
Let us help you find the perfect care solution for your loved one. Our friendly team is here to answer your questions and guide you through the process of arranging care.
Book your free, no-obligation care assessment today:
- Call us on 0330 223 6600
- Email: manager@lidderhomecare.com
- Complete our online enquiry form
We’ll take the time to understand your needs and create a care plan that gives you complete peace of mind. Don’t wait until a crisis happens – contact Lidder Care today and let us show you how we can help your loved one continue living independently at home.

Aman is an accomplished professional with diverse experience in counselling, forensics, compliance, and social care. She began her career at the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy, co-authoring the key legal resource “Therapists in Court,” before transitioning into the financial sector with PwC and HSBC.
Following a career break dedicated to raising her family, Aman returned to the workforce in social care with Lidder Care. Her commitment to employee wellbeing led her to introduce a successful program and obtain Mental Health First Aider certification. Additionally, her training as a Personal and Business Life Coach has equipped her to guide teams on leadership and collaboration.
At Lidder Care, Aman spearheaded refurbishment projects, integrated digital care planning software, and implemented compliance frameworks. Outside of work, she is a passionate runner and fundraiser, completing the London Marathon and raising funds for the Alzheimer’s Society. Her diverse interests also extend to film reviews and writing for a Bollywood magazine.